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Reignited - How Do We Smash The Ceiling If We Can't Get Off The Floor

coaching leadership Jun 22, 2021

 The latest Deloitte Global report “Women @ Work: A global outlook” that represents 5000 women across 10 countries reveals a stark reality for women in the workplace. The report finds that these increased responsibilities are having devastating effects on working women as 51% of those surveyed are less optimistic about their career prospects today.

Additionally, women surveyed reported a 35-point drop in mental health and a 29-point drop in motivation at work compared to before the pandemic.

The report states that equality has regressed during the pandemic, stifling years of slow, but steady progress. Increased responsibilities at work and at home during the pandemic, coupled with non-inclusive workplace cultures, are resulting in diminishing job satisfaction and employer loyalty for women.

Since the pandemic began, 77% of women surveyed say that their workloads have increased – the most frequently-cited change in their lives brought on by the pandemic. Women are also taking on more responsibilities managing household and caregiving tasks: 59% say they’re spending more time on domestic tasks; 35% are spending more time caring for children; and 24% cite more time caring for dependents other than children.

As a result, the survey suggests that women’s wellbeing has fallen significantly since the pandemic: only one third of women consider their mental wellbeing today to be “good” or “extremely good,” compared to 68% prior to the pandemic. With their mental wellbeing on the decline, women around the world are concerned about the impact of their mental health on their career: 29% of women who said their career isn’t progressing as fast as they would like point to poor mental health as a major contributing factor.

As women look for support throughout the pandemic, the survey shows that employers are failing to meet the moment. Only 22% of women believe their employers have helped them establish clear boundaries between work and personal time. Most women also feel like they have to be “always on” at work, and 63% feel that their employers evaluate them based on the amount of time they spend online versus the quality of their work.

Many of the women I have spoken to over the last couple of months are either feeling broken and burned out, or ready to leave the corporate world and start. their own businesses in their specialism, and not necessarily because they want to, but because they believe they have no choice.

More and more research tells us that businesses perform better and profits are increased when women have positions on the Board and on Executive and Leadership teams, but will there be any women left to secure these positions if things don't change?

The Deloitte report doesn't just show an issue, it shows we have taken a backwards step. How can we ever smash glass ceilings if our health is wellbeing is on the floor?

We must do better!

Glass Ceiling: – noun: an unacknowledged barrier to advancement in a profession, especially affecting women and members of minorities.

The first time I was asked to deliver an address at a women’s network, it was on the topic of Glass Ceilings and the issues I had faced throughout my career in competing with men. I explained that I had never encountered this issue (that changed years later) but I could give my opinion on the differences between men and women when seeking a new role or a promotion from an HR perspective.

Typically, women will wait until they can do 100% of the role outlined in the job description, whereas men will typically apply if they can do 60% of the role. Men talk in interviews about ‘I’ and women focus on ‘we’.

Research has demonstrated that often throughout school females outperform males, we work hard and receive recognition through the grades we receive. When we enter the world of work, we assume that our efforts will continue to be rewarded in the same way. For some, this is the case but for many, our efforts may go unnoticed because we aren’t promoting our successes and showcasing our talents in order to get the recognition we deserve.

From the definition above, we see the Glass Ceiling as an invisible barrier. I always believed I could achieve whatever I wanted to and so far I haven’t been proven wrong. However, there are still some organisations, where glass ceilings are a reality and in some cases, this can mean that we have two ceilings to break through - the one we create for ourselves and the one that others create for us. Organisations where you need to be in the ‘club’ in order to get promoted or recognised, thankfully this is changing, but not fast enough.

Another concept is the ‘Glass Cliff’ and this refers to women who have made it to the top, but due to lack of time, support or resources are quickly pushed off, whereas males at the top appear to be given more time, with more money and additional resources to ‘fix the issue’. At this point, we see women jumping before they are pushed - think recent UK Prime Ministers and women Interim CEO's who were passed by for the role.

I have been lucky to have so many inspirational female role models in my life, at home, at school, in education, and at work. I attend events with inspirational female speakers who have made it to the top and are succeeding in their roles. My network is filled with inspirational successful women. The great coaches and mentors whom I have worked with have been inspirational successful women. No ceilings, just striving for and reaching success, although we all have different views on what success looks like.

In 2013 I was at a two-day development workshop where at the end of the first day there was a panel discussion. One panel member told an outstanding story. She worked in London and had just been made Partner in a large consultancy firm as the first woman to do so. She had worked hard, broken the ceiling, and achieved what she wanted to achieve. She did speak about the ‘boys club’. In some of the nights out, she felt like an outcast because she wasn’t engaging in brandy and cigars although she had been recognised for her skills, talent, and hard work.

In 2014 I attended an event with 300 women at the London Business School where there were a host of fantastic female speakers, all of whom were either CEOs or members of Boards in International and Global Companies. The common theme they all spoke about was working hard to encourage more women into senior positions as they acted as role models to show it could be done.

Two speakers displayed their frustration at questions from the audience about juggling motherhood with a career. They both responded by asking if questions of fatherhood and a career would have been posed to male speakers.

And just yesterday in 2021, I spoke to a coaching client, who has been feeling this 'boys club' for a while. The recent D&I report for her company states that women are overlooked, undervalued and underdeveloped and she is the only one at her level with a Head of title instead of that of a Director - she's now looking for a new role.

Throughout my career, I have strived to remove barriers and boxes from the workplace. Our own beliefs can hinder us as can psychometric testing that excuses our behaviour or limits our growth just because we are female.

I hold a strong belief that we each hold the answers and resources within us to achieve what we want to achieve. If we want to aim high, we need to stop creating barriers invisible or otherwise, stop confining ourselves with labels and stereotypes and be ourselves. The more we believe in ourselves, the less we will be limited by ourselves and others. And the more we prioritise our own wellbeing; mental, emotional and physical, the happier and healthier we will be, in whatever role we choose.


Kelly is an Executive Coach for CEO's and CPO's who want to change the world of work at and Founder of The Chrysalis Crew.

She leads and coaches with an open heart, an open mind and has the courage to challenge the status quo and do things differently so that we can all love our roles, find balance in our lives and so that we can all change the world of work for the better.

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